Hey, we get to sing, “They’ll Know We Are Christians by Our Love!"
That’s a nice song, we feel pretty good when we sing it. In fact, we do those things we sing about all the time! Who needs a sermon, let’s just sing that song. That’ll be awesome!
Jesus told his disciples to love one another in that upper room at the meal we often call the last supper. Jesus took his greatest friends, served them a meal, and told them to love one another. After all, they were friends, so except for a few squabbles here and there, that should be pretty simple. Ah, love one another.
And they’ll know we are Christians by our love.
And Jesus in today’s gospel gave us the perfect example, sharing a meal with his friends, those who loved and cared for him the most. Sure, we can do that! And then Jesus washed the disciples’ feet. Well, not the most pleasant thing, but among friends, why not!
It sounds like a great party, a really great time! Until we remember that Judas Iscariot was there: The one who would turn Jesus over to the authorities, unleashing a chain of horrible events that would lead to Jesus’ death. Jesus shared the meal with him too, even though Jesus knew he really didn’t have his best interests at heart. Jesus even washed his feet, even though he knew that Judas would kick start his final walk to the cross that very night.
And they’ll know we are Christians by our love. How? Not by our niceness. Not by our love only to those who we know will love us back. Not by those who we have something to gain from by loving them. This love Jesus speaks of is selfless, without prejudice.
And they’ll know we are Christians by our love. Suddenly this doesn’t sound quite so simple. Because we all have those people who know exactly how to push our buttons, get under our skin. Being truly honest, we can all name a few people who we would really just never see again for whatever reason. Judas was certainly that person to Jesus. And Jesus simply loved him, dined with him, washed his feet. And right after Jesus gives the new commandment, Peter lavishly and loudly promises never to betray him, then does so three times. And Jesus simply loved him.
They’ll know we are Christians by our love. Not by our beautiful building, not by great sermons (now that’s good news!), not by our family values or upstanding citizenship, but by our love. And you know, that sounds nearly impossible.
We hear the words “love one another” and often imagine we need to be like Mother Teresa, as if loving one another is some unreachable goal that only the most holy can ever even come close to achieving. Because sometimes it’s just really hard to love.
But sometimes it’s not.
Because indeed we actually can and often DO love one another. Now we won’t and frankly can’t love perfectly, but we do love. And often we do it without even thinking about it.
So let me invite you to think back on your week. Consider a time when you showed love in some way big or small. Perhaps you had someone’s back when there were lies and misinformation rumored about her. Or maybe a friend slighted you and you chose to simply overlook it. Possibly you put aside your own goals for a time to help someone else achieve theirs. Or maybe it wasn’t that monumental: holding the door for someone whose arms were loaded. Being cut off in traffic by someone lost in thought and not honking the horn. Someone needing some encouragement and you giving it. Someone needing another to just listen and you sitting by their side and listening. Get that moment in your mind.
And now think of a moment in the recent past when you found it very difficult to love one another. Maybe it’s hard to forgive someone who hurt you or a loved one deeply. Maybe you can’t get past the disappointment caused by someone close by what they did or didn’t do.
And now realize that indeed we do love one another all the time. And we also fail at loving one another probably just as much. And so here you are, at the very place where it’s possible to give thanks for loving while also praying about the failure.
And they’ll know we are Christians by our love…
Jesus doesn’t just command us to love one another, he actually shows us what it is to love one another. He talks the talk and walks the walk. Walks straight to the cross to show us that “God so loves the world.”
Jesus did not go to the cross to make God loving, or to satisfy God’s justice, or to take on our punishment. Jesus went to the cross to show in word and deed that God is love and that we, as God’s children, are loved. So whether we succeed or fail in our attempts to love one another this week, God in Jesus loves us more than we can possibly imagine. And in hearing of this love we then are set free and sent forth, once again, to love another.
So simply put, God is love. Thanks be to God.
Please pray with me: Loving God, help us to reflect your love so that they’ll know we are Christians by our love. Amen.